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Almost my 10 year anniversary on ST
In a month, it will 10 years I landed at this site and felt at home. I don't get on much lately as we are over with the skid duty finally. My dSO and I will be together 14 years this summer. He went from 5 hours of visitation on Sundays, to EOW, to full time parent in 2010.
Some of my old blogs I left up. It was like living in an alternate universe how fucked up the skids and BM were and continues to be.
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OT - Looks like our Teacher strike is over
If any of you have seen on national news, the entire state of WV has been out of school for 9 days due to a teacher strike.
A deal has finally been reached and they will return tomorrow or Thursday. This doesn't just help teachers, but all state employees, like me, are getting a raise. This is huge because other than a $504 raise we received 2 years ago, this is the first state wide raise in 10 or 11 years. At the same time, insurance costs have skyrocketed.
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My awesome Christmas gifts.
I am editing the 'used' pedicure set to regifted set. I didn't proof read.
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I haven't posted a blog in a long time. Skids, while still driving me insane at times, really don't stay with us much.
I also noticed that I have been a member for 8.5 years here at ST.
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DSO admits that OSS is sneaky and a thief LOL.
We are leaving for the beach next week. We have a dog, so we needed someone to come and let out and feed for 4 days. My DD said she would do it, but I didn't want to burden her since its a long drive from her house to our house and she has a 2yo DD and a puppy herself.
So DSO and I were trying to think of someone else closer. The dog is a 100lb German Shepherd, so it had to be someone the dog knew.
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interesting funny text convo.
Our BM, like many of yours, likes to text DSO interesting little facts that aren't relevant to skids. DSO is very good about ignoring and not engaging her unless its about the skids.
A few weeks ago, DSO was texting with BM about YSS and visiting in the group home. He commented it was 350 mile round trip. BM had to return YSS yesterday and here is what she texted DSO. BM either doesn't use periods or she puts a period after every work bc she cant work texting.
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A funeral and a BM with no boundaries.
My DSOs brother, Bro3, passed away unexpectedly last week. DSO and his Bro3 are tight, they were the 2 youngest of 5 kids. DSO relied on Bro3 a lot for guidance, fixing stuff, borrowing stuff and Bro3 helped pay the atty retainer for DSOs divorce when BM moved in internet lover man.
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BM has made a change for the better. Fingers crossed it stay that way.
I was told by a mutual friend that BMs docs took her off all her script drugs bc she didn't need them and they felt she was abusing them. It did seem like BM had calmed a little with the bat shit crazy.
The life and times of SS15, kid is more messed up than anyone really knows.
SS15 was sent to a high level psyche place/group home. The state basically stripped all of DSOs and BMs rights and took full custody. It really had to do more with BM than DSO. They told DSO if he wasn't working and could care for SS 24/7, he could've stayed with him. I won't allow it bc of the past when SS15 was in my home full time. He was deliberately trying to get me to kick DSO out so DSO could go back to BM...it was something BM put in the childs head. All this did, was send SS to juvie/group homes for 2.5 years now.
Update to I may not be a SM much longer.
the previous blog:
http://www.steptalk.org/node/216099
I didn't update sooner as I was going thru some stuff with my 83yo Mother and I was waiting to see what happened.
SO called the social worker and asked her if he quit his job, what services would they give him. She said she would call back and never has.
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In 5 weeks, I will have been a Stalker for 6 years!!!!!
I really need to start doing my story in short blogs. I read the newcomers stories and remember when I was one of them and sounded exactly like them.
I wanted to mold and shape the skids to be better than their trashy Mother. I tried to help BM be a better Mother, cheered her on to get custody back..tried to give her advice. Took on the 24/7 care of them when their Mom lost custody. Tried to give them a good home and some stability.