I there , I am in a currently great relationship , with an amazing man who has 3 kids , I am single , with no kids . I do not ,nor have I ever considered that baggage , I know we all have our pasts and need to accept and move forward . So I am here as I want to make the right steps in doing that . I am 8 months into a strong mutual relationship , I am careful , and very cautious about meeting the kids ( is that odd that I havent yet) . Would like someone to share their same stories with me , if your out there .