I started having chest pain on Wed, it was pretty bad, I debated on Thu whether to go to ER, but waited...by Friday afternoon I was very concerned, sure, could have been a pulled chest muscle, but this felt different and it was very painful when breathing and when laying down.  I took myself to the ER, was seen immediately and luckily arrived at a super slow time.  They did all kinds of tests, EKG, blood tests, CT scan...well the CT scan revealed I had clots in my lungs -the left side (Pulmonary embolism)!  I was admitted and spent the whole weekend there (was also my bday)- on Heparin blood thinner drip, in addition, I struggle with anemia so was on iron as well. My A1C is very high again, which was controlled, so back on insulin.  After two days I was released home and have a lot of follow-ups with my hematologist, my endocrinologist, obgyn, etc.  My periods are really bad, though I went 4 months w/out one so thought I was almost 'there' at menopause...but now they are back.  On blood thinners the bleeding will be worse so we are hoping they can find a way to fix this, as oral birth control (I was on previously continous) is a risk. It was scary for sure, DH left work Friday to come by see me, then came for a while on Sat and then when released.  He was pretty worried, not to mention all the trauma he's going through.

They think it was caused by Covid I had about a month ago, as it's not uncommon for this to happen. I'm quite down, because I'm having SO many different health issues, it's super ovewhelming and a horrible struggle to manage them all. 

On Sunday MIL sent him two texts, an hour apart about how she wants back a room divider she let us have (but of course now says she let us 'borrow') I told him to ignore her, she's baiting him to have him react by being petty since he's not said a word to her since all the crap happened with SD.  Said in a couple days he can answer her-she doesn't get to demand immediate return of something she gave us- while SD is struggling to find a place to leave w/the baby.  She wants him to bite back and fight w/her...he's not going to do it, in a couple days he will tell her she is welcome to come get it (she doesn't drive so will send whatever minion is willing to be around her to pick up).  I kind of want to throw it in her front yard and set in on fire to be honest lol. Eff her.  

So, we should be hearing soon about the DNA test SD did, that said, apparently MIL's approach to try and get SD out of there is to start repeating everything vile she did the 1st time, as if SD didn't hear it already....so it's really bad. Apparently last Thursday, SD was taking a shower when MIL barged in and told her they needed to talk.  She went down the SAME info she did previously and added more hurtful stuff.  SD told her to STOP and she kept on going.  So the main concern is getting her OUT of there asap, and that means maybe going to BM's.  MIL probably knows she can't get SD out w/out an eviction, so her approach will be make her life a living hell with emotional/verbal abuse and keep telling her she's not family and dad isn't her dad, as if the 1st time didn't destroy sd's world.  We thought the 1st time was evil beyond comprehension, but the fact that she's pounding in the message on repeat is very concerning.  Don't know WHAT we can do.  If he confronts her she'll double down and make things harder for SD.  

BIL DID step up as we asked to get MIL to stop hounding her, but this time she did it when he wasn't home, so she knows exactly what she is doing.  SD isn't there much at all, but she waits for any min she sees her.  The issue with moving to bm's is the distance to SD's job and distance from baby daddy who lives in this area and they split custody and he is saving for a vehicle now that they split up.  Getting ready to call SD and see where she is at.