I have three stepchildren ages, 24, 21 (boys) and soon to be 18 (girl). I have been living with their father for 8 years, married for 1. The visitation schedule is Tuesday and Thursdays from 3 - 8 p.m. and every other weekend (Friday at 5 p.m. - Sunday at 7 p.m.). They still following this. They are 24 and 21 years old!! They sleep on our sofas because we don't have enough room for them and it was okay when they were young/teenagers but now they are men. They don't do anything when they are there except play videogames or computer games. They don't talk to us.