:? I am married and am a first time mom of a 2 yr old. I married a man with a daughter. She is almost 8. The bio mom was not involved at all when we got married. I knew eventually she'd come back at some point, and it's now. This story is so all over the place, but I guess, in a nut-shell, I'm having a hard time accepting this girl as my full-time step daughter. It makes everything more difficult for me, I don't get as much quality time w/my son, and I get followed all over the place.