After being with my wife 10yrs now and married for 5, I feel like I am just about done with it all, and I think I fear being alone the most. My wife has always had a strangely close relationship with her three sons and not so much with her daughter, they range from ages 20 to 29. After ten years together you start to find out little things along the way about the people you love. My wife is fifty and I forty-five, and has recently started to reveal she has long time "Mommy issues" with her mother.