I ask that becuse I never thought I would but I did. This weekends my SD's spend it at the BM house.we picked them up sunday night,hubby went to work monday morning. Everything was fine I asked my SD's to go clean the room and the youngest one age 4 would not help at all. I told her that if she did not help her sister she would be put in time out. She refused to help so i put her in time out.