And it's a doozy. Actually, how DH found out is the best part.

You can see my old blogs for the whole story but basically, BM called DH a couple of weeks ago to inform him that she had broken up with BF and would be moving into a new apt. with SD. Since then she has been sending emails, calling and visiting my DH at his business.

Although DH owns his own business, he occasionally picks up bartending shifts at a friend's bar for extra cash. He's known this friend all his life and has worked on and off at this bar for years. Last year, when BM began dating this guy, one of DH's co-workers at the bar told DH that he knew the new BF, was friends with him and that he was not a bad guy. DH has met him on several occasions with SD (at events, exchanges, etc) and likes him well enough. The only thing we both thought was that there must be something wrong with him to want to be with BM.

So today, the friend from the bar calls DH to ask him if he would have a problem with (now ex) BF getting a job at the bar. DH said no, he had no beef with this guy. Friend went on to tell him that the reason they broke up is because he finally saw BM's crazy first-hand. Apparently, he told BM that one thing he could not deal with was lying. He caught BM in multiple lies and wrote down some ultimatums that he would be issuing to her when he confronted her with said lies. BM found his "list" and had a huge blow up. From what the guy said, I guess it was full blown, earth-shattering crazy. So, BF was like "I'm done, get out.

The best part is going to be when she figures out that he is working with DH at the bar. I would give anything to witness that meltdown of epic proportions! She just knows they will be comparing notes and talking about what a loon she is. Oh, and you better believe that I will make certain that she finds out. Think of me what you will, but I have no problem planting that bug in SD's ear.

DH and I figured it was only a matter of time before she could no longer hide behind her BPD mask and the lying, manipulating, psycho side of her would finally become apparent to him. But FFS, we thought it would take longer than this. I mean they have only been dating a little over a year and living together for 3 months!! Ahhh, the crazy is strong with that one...