My last blog was over Christmas. BM had refused to meet DH at the CO'd spot to pick up SD6 on Christmas Eve because DH had "broken" their agreement by picking SD up at school the previous Friday because she was sick. DH actually caught some flack from some of the members here because he had picked up his sick daughter from school (even though it was the best possible choice for all concerned). DH and I had a huge fight over having to drive SD back across town to take her home, not so much because of the inconvenience but because BM pulls this shit Every.Single.Christmas and I am sooo over it. DH told me that from now on he is following the CO to the letter so that shit won't happen any longer. Yeah, right. When pigs fly out of my ass, DH.

Fast forward to this morning. We are supposed to get SD on MLK day from 9am to 9pm. Of course, meeting at CO'd spot. DH tells me that instead he is picking her up at CO'd spot at 7am (gee, thanks for getting the whole house up 2 hours earlier than needed DH) and dropping her off at BM's house at 8pm. Of course, according to DH, this all for SD's benefit because it is a school night.

Ok, I get that she is 6 and meeting at a coffee shop at 9pm is not the best idea. BUT, that is what the friggin' judge ordered!! Also, in reality all of this benefits BM, so I assume it was all her idea. So what happened to following the CO? What about BM penalizing DH because he "broke the agreement" over Christmas? It's funny how I am the only person in this whole situation who remembers the crap she puts us through and recognizes the double standards that she lives by. I just want DH to call her out on her crap, just once! And I really want the karma bus to smash her fat ass!!! Gah!!!!!