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Teenage SD's want SD7 to visit their home on her own...opinions?

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Submitted by Anywho78 on Sun, 07/31/2011 - 4:25pm

Ok…for those of you that read my blog, you know that I’m resident SM to SS8 & SD7 with no bio kids (if you don’t count my dogs). While I’m not BM to resident Skids, SO & myself do all of the parental work & their BM (Nasty) sees the Skids for less than 1 week per year.

Teenage SD’s have now asked if SD7 can go “hang out” with them at BM Rednecks home for a weekend. SO is livid as SD7 turns into a huge turd anytime she is around anyone other than SO & I for more than 5 minutes & the teenage SD’s have refused to visit in our home aside from 1 time this year for SD14 while SD15 has visited twice…so 3 times combined between the 2 of them.

Please also remember that they want to see SD7 while SS8 will be left at home (he’s PDD-NOS, autistic spectrum). I don’t think it’s fair that they ALWAYS want to exclude him, but my main issue is that they are all (BM Redneck included) wanting SD7 to visit over there instead of coming here to see their dad.

SO & I are both opposed to this idea but I'm curious about how any of you (bio or not) would react to this request?

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Submitted by Anywho78 on Sun, 07/31/2011 - 4:58pm

It's two separate BM's...BM Redneck is BM to SD's 14 & 15 while BM Nasty is no-show BM to SD7 & SS8.

I agree whole-heartedly with the hate-train campaign though!

He's not going to allow it, I just wanted other STalkers views on it Smile

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Submitted by Anywho78 on Sun, 07/31/2011 - 5:17pm

Thanks for your response Step, it's good to hear that there are still kind respectful youths out there Smile

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Submitted by Anywho78 on Sun, 07/31/2011 - 5:15pm

They use her as their own personal barbie doll...paint her face, dress her up, take pics of her doing pouty faces or butt out poses...just the typical activities which would reiterate to SD7 that she is DA-BOMB & that the world revolves around her & her perfectness.

They used to do this at MIL's house until SD15 was banned from being there due to her hideous attitude...SD7 of course misses being the center of attention. SO has since banned SD14 from taking pics of SD7 since he got one of her looking like a $5.00 hooker...ah the joys of parenthood!

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Submitted by herewegoagain on Sun, 07/31/2011 - 10:10pm

No. They can see them at YOUR place. And NO, ALL kids should be included...if you allow them to exclude the autistic child, what kind of little aholes do you think they'll be? Amazing...what is wrong with kids today? Oh yes, the parents who allow such things...DO NOT allow it!