I'm writing this is hopes of getting some support as well as having the opportunity to relese a little. My fiance has 4 sons. They are with us half time. These boys range from 3rd grade to a jr in high school. i am a very structured person and i have raised my children in a house filled with white furniture and lats of breakables around my home. i find every day that my home continues to become more and more of a mess.