"Tell BM I Hate Her"
OMG, I am SO pissed.
Instead of dropping SD off at swim tryouts, FDH wanted to be a good guy and stay there with her. The agreement was he would contact BM to let her know what time SD would be done so she could come pick her up and FDH could come home straight home and not drive all over the damn state for the third time today.
Well it's been over for a while and BM has been refusing to answer her damn phone. So now, FDH has to drive SD all the way to BM's house and then back here. So now he will be on the road for over an hour when we are supposed to be enjoying our night together.
So she's making him spend more money on gas after having bled him earlier for the bathing suit and goggles SD needed unexpectedly. AND she's messing with our night. Why? Why is she such a useless, mean bitch who can't live up to her commitments.
When we were hanging up I said "Tell BM I hate her". He died laughing and said "OK, I will".
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We live 30 minutes from her
We live 30 minutes from her school and 45 minutes from BM's house. This was her first tryout and we didn't know how long it would last. So he didn't want her to get stuck there waiting for BM. They had an agreement that as soon as he got a handle on what time it would be over, he'd contact BM. He did and she refused to pick up the phone. He certainly wasn't going to leave his daughter alone at the school not knowing if BM would ever show.
And yes, I agree with you on planning. This wasn't a case they could do it. But they drive me nuts with ad hoc.
The part that burns my ass is that I believe she was the one to offer to pick her up. It's HER night.
What knuckle-dragging swamp
What knuckle-dragging swamp cunt. She needs to get a life.
Why is he taking her to BM's
Why is he taking her to BM's house instead of your house?
That makes me think things didn't happen the way he said they did. He may have agreed to stay and drive her home.
Couple things: 1- BM feels it
Couple things:
1- BM feels it is not her responsibility to do any visitation-related driving. We have cort stuff in process to change that so she has to do 50%
2- She would never have picked up SD from our house
3- SD would've been very upset
4- FDH avoids conflict at all cost
He told me when he got there they were having dinner. He also told me she was mad earlier when he asked for her to do this. So I guess she reluctantly agreed then played a game of "I have the power, screw you!" and she knew he'd drive her home.
Just a bitch.
This is the computer addicted
This is the computer addicted SD, right? Yeah, if so, then BM knows you all will not want to keep her. In fact, maybe BM wants to spend as little time as possible with her darling SD. It sounds like BM and DH are in a fight over who has to take your charming SD. I'm sure BM was pissed that your DH didn't just take her home.
With and SD who is so difficult, I can understand why no one wants to put up with her, but it's BM and DH's fault, so they have to share her! lol.
Thank you for remembering my
Thank you for remembering my situation. But this is actually SD15. SD12 is the one with the computer addiction and behavioral problems. SD15 is the best kid. Yet she gets overlooked time and time again. I actually read him the riot act about how she is treated last night so I think he was trying to make sure to spend extra time with her today.
This is a pissing match. BM knows we are asking for (in court) her to be responsible for 50% of the driving and she is stark raving mad. She agreed to do this so she could later screw him and prove her point that she's in control. I guess the magistrate will work this out.
If BM has a pattern of
If BM has a pattern of messing your DH around, next time he tries to make arrangements with her he should end with a "plan b". "I will take DD, i'll contact you as soon as i know pick up time. If I don't hear from you immediately I will take DD home with me and you can pick up from there" I'm sure she will always pick up if she knows about plan b
My SO's ex used to do that to him all the time as well, when he started telling her the plan b's she never messed him around again, although she's still a b!tch lol
That would work well IF the
That would work well IF the SDs were younger and IF BM would actually pick up the kids from our house. BM would just leave them here which wouldn't go well for the skids or anyone.