I found out today that my SD12 is "dating" a boy we told her she is not allowed to "date". Her BFFs ex, whom BFF just broke up with two weeks ago because her parents caught her sneaking out to meet him at the corner park and making out with him.... I talked with her extensively about the ramifications of this and forbade her from Skyping this boy or "in-school dating" him. Yep, the BFF reacted exactly like I told stupid SD12 that she AND the other friends would react.

I read in her facebook messages with the boy that they are dating. She is lying to me and DH saying they are just friends. Just like I predicted, all her friends want nothing to do with her now. I am so pissed off and disgusted. She is acting trashy. She lost both her best friends. I hope it was worth it. We let her go to the mall alone with a friend, she swore NO boys...guess what...yep, she snuck and texted this boy to meet them at the mall.

I don't want to say it..I really REALLY don't, because I have raised this kid since she was three and am supposed to adopt her and do love her...but it reaaally reminds me of her BM. I am so tired of lies and manipulation that I could just vomit between SD and DH and all their little petty lies to make themselves look good or pretend they didn't do anything wrong.