I HAVE AN 8 YEAR OLD STEPSON, ME AND MY FIANCE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 4 YEARS. I DO NOT FEEL LIKE I HAVE BEEN TREATED AS A MOM. EVERYBODY IS ASKING ME TO BE A MOM FOR MY STEPSON BUT THEY ONLY LET ME DO THE DIRTY WORK. STUDY WITH HIM PLAYING WITH HIM WASH HIS CLOTHES FEED HIM MAKE HIS LUNCH CLEAN UP HIS ROOM....! IMPORTANT STUFF?I GET THE " STAY OUT OF IT OR MIND YOUR BUSINESS" I AM NOT ONLY HAVE TO DEAL WITH A DRUG ADDICT MOTHER I HAVE TO DEAL WITH AN OVER PROTECTIVE FATHER-IN-LAW ALSO.