SD20 just moved in with her bf, Troglodyte.
The bf my DH (and his coworkers) cannot stand (they worked together for a few months).
The bf who has a lot of the classic abuser traits my first H had, like:
* having a hissy fit when SD goes anywhere (aside from work) without him so now they do EVERYTHING together
* criticizing SD's outfits until she wears what he wants aaaaaand she now asks him what to wear
* wanting her fatter so no other man want her (SD has gained at LEAST 40 lbs in the past 7 months because the bf is forever feeding her junk food and having her bake cookies and they eat the entire batch)
* isolating SD from friends and family. her oldest sister (DH's SD23) told me that SD20 has unfriended on Fakebook Every.Single.Family.Member. SD20 will only talk to her mother about college tuition.

And speaking of college tuition, SD better start raking in some bucks fast. DH told her months ago that if she is responsible enough to move in with someone and pay bills, she is responsible for her own tuition (NO, DH is not required to pay for college).

However, I think SD believes that DH keep paying only because neither she nor BioHo have told DH about the move. The only reason I found out is because I was texting with SD23 and she asked if we knew that SD20 had moved in with Trog. I asked DH who said WTF?

Evil Aniki would love to be a fly on the wall when SD finally calls DH asking for $$$. }:)