I need help. I have been with my fiancé for 3 years. the ex found out about me, in 2013, hunted me down. He was not allowed to see his kids for various invalid reasons in the beginning, before me. I had heard bits and pieces in the beginning. But I'm one of those people that want to find out for myself not just hearsay. I tried to listen and get my own view from the ex. But new right off the bat shes not right. The huge horrible lies to get me to run away. Didn't work. The daily trouble. excuses to call about the kids yet never a conversation about the kids...