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Downward spiral about to begin....

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Submitted by AlmostDone on Thu, 07/07/2016 - 4:18pm

BM is bipolar and lives with her fiancé. He pays the majority of her rent and expenses.
OSD18 called me during work today, because she didn't know what to do. BM called OSD18, crying that her fiancé was dead. Talked OSD through some stuff (skids barely interacted with the fiancé, so they are upset that their mom is upset, not that he died).

When does visitation order end?

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Submitted by AlmostDone on Sat, 06/11/2016 - 9:02pm

In DH's CO, support ends at 18 and HS graduation. It makes no mention of when visitation schedule ends (we are assuming the same).

This is BMs weekend.
YSD15 and OSD18 were with her today (MSD is working out of state for the summer). Both were dropped off at exchange location. Both were picked up at exchange location today.

Dealing with captain crazy pants (BM)

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Submitted by AlmostDone on Sat, 05/14/2016 - 8:22am

Hi all. I've been lurking for about a year but never opened an account,so new account, but not new to the site.

Here's the background. Been married to DH almost 3 years. He had 50/50 custody of his three kids, until a week before our wedding, when BM decided they would live with us full time. BM lives less than 5 miles away from us and the CO now gives her EOWE from 8-4 S and Su (no overnights). BM is bipolar. We go through periods of "normal reasonable behavior" and major crazy, irrational, accusatory behavior with BM