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Aeron's picture

So I figured she might appeal the ruling. You know, the one she didn't show up for. But not Quite.

Rather than appeal the termination of child support and the dismissal of her request she has submitted a new petition, requesting a renewal of CS and the addition of college tuition, car insurance, etc.

Obviously, she saw Terminated and flipped her mind, thinking DH was going to get told he of Course needed to support Her, erm, I mean SD until I don't know, she dies I guess..... Cause it looks like she went down and filed this petition the day the ruling showed up in the mail. I think maybe she missed the part where the magistrate clearly wrote that their state does Not have the Authority to extend child support and overrule the original decree that is from another state. Can't do it lady. And since the state in which CS was original order is Not a state that thinks NCP's should be on the hook for Adults, they don't order parents to pay for college either.

I'm not entirely sure why it was just thrown out but whatever. But you better believe I'm going to badger the hell out of DH to go after her for attorney fees. Not our damn fault she was "late" to a court date. It was after 11 am too, so really.... In my world, she just thought she didn't need to bother showing up.

Oh and she's still asking for a GAL for SD in this. I really don't think I'd be able to find it in me to mourn or even feel all that bad for SD if BM got hit by a bus. Cause really, SD might have some hope of turning into a normal freaking person through the socialization of college if her stupid mother got out of her way.... Or maybe I'm just being overly optimistic again.

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Aeron's picture

Pretty sure that's what the court is thinking too. Not to mention its all about child support so I still don't get why BM and SD are talking like this is SD's case......

Rags's picture

The Sperm Clan had the petition to end CS on my SS prepped and submitted it on SS's 18th b-day. They had been feeding him the sob story about how his three younger also out of wedlock Sperm Idiot spawned half sibs by two more baby mamas were starving because of the CS that they had been paying on SS for 17+ years. Wahhhhhhh! Fricking cry babies.

Their manipulative guilt bullshit actually got to SS and he never pursued CS for college as is state policy in Sperm Land. CS would have continued until SS was 22 if he was a full time student in good academic standing with his college or university. Our deal with him was we would pay for all of his tuition, fees, living expenses, food, a car, etc.. if .... he nailed the Sperm Idiot for continuation of CS. Our stance was that his bio dad could step up as he had pawned his CS obligation off on the Sperm Grandparents who were also raising the three younger half sibs in their home with no help from the Sperm Idiot while he lived rent free in their rental property.

SS chose not to go that route and enlisted in the USAF instead. Sperm Grandma's toxic tears of manipulation got to him.
Sadly, as soon as he enlisted Sperm Grandma started pestering him to start sending money to help support his sperm idiot spawned younger half sibs. That was pretty much the nail in Sperm Grandma's coffin with SS. He wrote her toxic ass off at that point.

Aeron's picture

I'm sorry for your SS. Toxic relatives always suck.

We ct singly aren't claiming anyone is starving and honestly, we'd be okay with helping with college..... If SD had Some relationship with the family. But she doesn't. She hasn't willingly spoken to DH in about 3 years. We have no idea where she intends to go, what she intends to pursue. She's never met her sister, she's never acknowledged the cards that have been sent, turned down all invitations we've offered.... It goes on.

I have no desire to pay for a legal adult that has told us to stay out of her beautiful little life. She wants nothing to do with us? That's fine, but I don't think she should be able to want nothing to do with us and still want everything to do with our funds. And at least here, the state that has authority over it doesn't think parents should be legally required to support adults either.