I have been married just over a month. My husband and I have argued for three days about an issue that I thought was resolved before we got married. Last summer, his exwife took their two children to his neighborhood pool. She has to get the key from my husband to take the kids to the pool. I feel that it is extremely inappropriate for her to even ask to take the kids to his pool. He supposedly spoke with her about this last summer. So, this year she bought a membership to another neighborhood pool in the subdivision across the street.