Hi am new to the forum and desperate for some advice from people that dont have q bias option due to knowing me. 

I am a mum of 2 (16 &10) girls and split from there father over 3 years ago. He doesnt have his children over night (always an excuse) pays me very little maintainance and takes them for food once a week (not planned) for 2 hrs max, and sometimes acts as a taxi service for my eldest if she asks him direct.

I deal with this as I dont want to ask or expect anything from him.