I married my husband who is the sole caretaker for his 16 y/o son. His sons mother is not in his life currently. We have a 1 y/o son together. When I first gave birth I had an overwhelming feeling that someone would molest my son. It was debilitating how strong that feeling was. I couldn't get the thought out of my head. It was as if my momma instincts had kicked in but I couldn't figure out what or who the trigger was. When my son was about 2 months old I noticed my stepson laying on the ottoman with my son sitting on his lap directly on his crotch.