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Submitted by 961Hannah on Sun, 05/13/2012 - 10:08pm

So.... I come home from a weekend away from DH and evil SD18 - only to find that SD18 has a friend that is sleeping over - THAT I HAD NO CLUE ABOUT! DH never said anything to me and I've talked to him about this SEVERAL times. I don't get it! Why on earth is it not important at all to tell you wife what is going on in our house! Oh - lets include that the friend that is staying over has also engaged in the same facebook/twitter slander that SD18 has about me. I'm about to pack my bag and stay at my sisters tonight....

Holding his feet to the fire....

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Submitted by 961Hannah on Sat, 03/17/2012 - 1:29pm

1st off - I'll apologize for this being a bit lenghty.

Yesterday, SD18 walked right passed me, out the front door and didn't say anything about where she was going. My DH and I sat down several weeks ago and disussed the "rules" for our house which was communicated to her. One of the rules was that she would not disrespect me by walking right by me and not saying anything about where she was going.

Questions on this "Disengaging" concept

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Submitted by 961Hannah on Sun, 03/11/2012 - 4:49pm

I've read some articles on the concept of Disengaging. I have to say they are pretty interesting - but I'd like to hear from some people who have actually done it. I don't know how to effectivly do it with my SD18. I realize that it is a very hard process, especially from me who constantly dwells on the hurt and anger that I have towards her and everything she has done to me.

Need some crafty ideas on what to say.....

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Submitted by 961Hannah on Fri, 03/09/2012 - 6:21pm

So I am "10 miles beyond done" with my SD18 behavior. She feels it is perftly appropriate to walk into the house with me sitting right there and not say a word - no Hi, Bye, Please, Thank You, or Kiss my A**. She also feels it is fine to walk right past me and not tell me where she is going -- really she doesn't say a single word to me.