I have told myself for many years that I should write a book! Unbelievable is the only word that is appropriate when describing our situation. 
And the latest will not disappoint...

Let me start off by saying I pop in here every once in a while but for the most part I am completely and utterly disengaged. I have zero contact with HCBM. And am not involved with skids day to day life other than to say hello or goodbye. Their choice but after many years I have accepted that and moved on. We live parallel lives 50 percent of the time within our home.