I have been with my fiance for little over a year but have known him from my childhood and grew up with him we rekindled and we are madly in love but his daughter my soon to be step daughter she is going to 9 at the end of july is a major problem with me she is so disrespectful and very rude and I think she may suffer from add or adhd I suffer from some mental issues myself and im am so impatient.