I will try to keep this short and provide details. I really just need a place to vent. Let me start by saying I'm transgender. (Please no negatively on this). I met my wife 3 years ago and we moved along very fast. With in 6 months of dating we got engaged and married shortly after. I have a great relationship with my two younger kids. They both loved me from the start. My oldest step daughter is 21. Let me also state my wife and I have a 13 year age difference. She is 43 and I'm 30. At first K(oldest)  liked me. Loved that I make her mom happy and I'm there for her siblings.