SO gets his 4 yead old EOW. Well for some reason he doesnt tell her to pick up her toys and put them up nor does he tell her to throw away her trash. 

So what do I clean when its cleaning day? Everything BUT the living room. Literally wrappers and toys everywhere and im talking the small toys.

To push his buttons , I wait till its next week (her leaving week) and on the weekend (her leaving day but also our chill day) to ask him to clean up the living room. He hates cleaning and hates when I nag at him which is often because he always needs help.