So I m new to this site I guess my first post does not make much sense but I hope I ll get better in time. I got married almost a year ago and we lived in Europe (I m from Europe) for some time together. Then I came here, met my SD 4,5 9 ( every Wednesday evening and EOW). My husband spent the last 8 months here having her every other weekend so they established their lifestyle but the problem is I m not able to fit in into this.