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Kind of OT- O.D.D.

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So, talked to BM yesterday first time she has called SS4 in more than two weeks. First thing she asked was about Easter and what we are getting for SS's birthday. No how has he been, or what's been going on while I've been out partying...Anyway, so I start to tell her about the issues we have been having with SS (tantrums for no reason, screaming about everything, saying mean things, hitting, kicking, etc...) and tell her we are concerned he may have something medically wrong with him.

Jail again for the BM

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So my SS4 was supposed to be spending the weekend with his BM (first time in over a month). We usually drive the full 2.5hrs to take him because we have a bunch of family in the immediate area, but we are not visiting until Easter, and haven't visited since early February. So, she called me last week (Tuesday) talked to SS for 10 minutes, then asked me when we are coming to visit again, I said probably not until Easter. She just said oh okay, well I will talk to you guys soon.

It's my fault he's bad...

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So, where to start... I am a BM of 2, SM of 1. My BD is 3, BS is 10months and SS is 5. I have been in the picture since my SS turned 2. Not much changes in 3 years. I have always been the bad guy because I want my children to all have manners, respect, and because I keep them on a pretty regular schedule. My SS lives with us primarily and sometimes sees his BM. She recently had another baby, lives on welfare 100% and child support for the new baby, and doesn't work or drive.