My H and I have been having problems since the beginning. His drinking is awful- he stopped for a few months and started again for the 3rd time in 5.5 years. Every time he drinks his personality changes drastically and he becomes even more of an ass at the drop of a hat. Has no filter, doesn't care who's around, has embarrassed me countless times by screaming at me like I'm an idiot or a child over the littlest thing. So a 2 weeks ago he brings his 2 kids to our weekend cabin where I have been staying since covid for the most part.