I have been married for almost 6 years, second marriage for both me and my husband.  We have fought the majority of our marriage but a drinking problem of my husbands escalated the fights into full out verbal abuse.  Recently, my husband directed his 'drinking' anger at my 15 year old son.  He called him a 'baby ass' and then yelled hateful things from another room about how he was going to be nothing like his real dad.  He even yelled about him being on the B team in basketball and how he just needs to quit if he can't do better than that.  I did not want my son to become his new target, s