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what are the steps to shutting off my anger around SD?
I have read that so many of you just learned to shut off and not let the SD push your buttons, what did you do? and how did you do it? I need to know cause just being around her smart mouth and snotty behavior i get upset and then the day is ruined. I know it wont happen overnight, but I am willing to do what i have to at this point!
I need help now, there is no waiting for another chance!
I have been with my husband(common law) for 11 years, I am so in love with him in my heart but my head tells me to run for the hills without looking back. We met in 1999 and he was done with a divorce and fought for custody of his kids, without telling me. He won! I lost! His son was with us for 4 years and then graduated and moved back to where his mom is, unfortunately for me his 17 year old daughter is still with us.