So I'm new to the stepmom thing. I've been trying to talk to my close family about it but they say I'm being unfair. Honestly I do not like my step kids. I guess it goes back to the beginning when their mom basically told me "they have a mom they don't need another one" so I stepped back and thought ok I'm done. Many other things happened prior to this but that was kind of my ok I'm out. So when then come over I get uncomfortable and anxious and I hate it. My husband is great with my kids but I've taught them to respect him.