Bf & his kids ss25, sd21 and sd30 and their indulged personalities and my uneasy feelings when they visit or stop by, bf/father setting tone of treatment and ganging up and dumping on me ( sd21 & ss25) lived w us for 3 years and 1 year as I couldn't stand to be told I should clean up after them and I work full time and part time and clean the house and they do nothing.   Nothing.  Play games and also as in hs and did not contribute at all.   I am/was too tired to do things for them after seeing my attempts to stear them and direct them fell on hostile ears and no help from bf.