Hi I am a newby to this site too. As you I stumbled onto it as well. I guess it must have been meant to be. I have a blended family I have two Bio boys that are 14 and 16. My youngest is special needs ADHD/ODD. However I have been working with him for the past thirteen years. My oldest is just fine and they are both great kids. My husband and I got married 4 years ago. I thought my life was complete I had some playmates now for my children and I had a little step daughter that I could dote over. My husband has two bio kids one girl now 11 now and a boy now 14.