I basically took everyones advice and put it together. Friday night when I got home from school we had afew beers (his for pleasure mine for courage) I told him that I was sorry I hadn't shown him the letter sooner but that he needed to read it. I had this whole speech prepared about how I support what ever decided to do, and unconditional love etc. etc. But he never said a word. Just went into the guest room and locked it... And stayed there all night. Sat. morning he was up at 7am makeing breakfast. Acting like bussiness as usual. I didn't bring it up all weekend.