I am at my wits end with my fiancé’s kids.   They are rude and talk back, they complain about absolutely everything I do. I hate it when they come over  because I feel like an outsider in my own home.   I tried to hide in my room but then I’m accused of being antisocial .  I am a teacher and I’m good with kids. I feel like a failure because of them-  I want to do the right thing but I don’t know how. How can you bond with kids that have been taught to hate you?