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I fell off the wagon

We got back together for a bit. The STBXW created hell, using the kids to hurt him, using information about my past to hurt me. I realised that while I'm putting up with all the drama, all the hurt, what is it for? Is love enough? No. Not when loving someone comes with so much unhappiness and anxiety. I ended the relationship again. I've taken my things from his place, returned his.

F***ing holy hell

So, OHs horrible father invited us out for breakfast. OH, HS14 and HD10. He didn't really speak to us much, I don't really speak to him unless he speaks to me.

End of the meal he turns to HD10 and asks if her mother was working today, if she wasn't what woukd she be doing? OH and I are cringing. He always finds a way to talk about her. When HD10 says she doesn't know, OHs father says "she's probably busy, on her back with her knickers off"

I stood, made my disgust known and instructed the kids to leave with me right away.

Wtaf is wrong with him?!

Disengaging, the end?

I disengaged from all of the aspects of my OHs life that I didn't enjoy roughly 2 weeks ago. It worked out great, but he kept making little comments about it signalling the end, and how it wasn't fair that I could pick and choose.

First weekend

where I did what I wanted!

I wasn't there when he brought the kids home from school Friday. (I hate it when they're just home from school, they both fight to tell the longest, more boring stories every, louder and louder til my ears are ringing) Usually I ould be there making dinner but I stayed at my place and he ordered pizza for them. I had a nice dinner, relaxed, got some work done while he took them to the cinema. They got home around 9.30 so I went to see them. Stayed over, made breakfast then went off with my friends.

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