I feel so conflicted about my feelings-- I find myself here at this site after googling how to make myself accept my boyfriend's child. We have been together for nearly six years. He discovered he had impreganted a past girlfriend when we had been together just a few months, but didn't tell me until a DNA test confirmed the child was his, SIX MONTHS AFTER HIS SON WAS BORN. I have three children who adore my boyfriend and his son. I just cannot bring myself to really accept this child. Every time I look at him I am reminded of my boyfriend's betrayal.