So glad to find this site. Doesn't seem to be a lot of support for Stepparents out there, and lord knows I need it.

So here goes. Forgive me if its kinda choppy, but Ive been keeping this to myself sooo long

Fiance and I have been on and off for almost the last 7 years. My relationship with his kids has been on and off as well. When we first met he had full custody of them and we really had no issues as SS's were 5 and 7 at the time.