I would like to know if I am unreasonable, any responses greatly appreciated. Been with husband 4 years. 2 years spent on court for him to go through divorce and custody. Paid attorney over 25,000 to advise signing physical custody to mother because he was traveling for work, but an arbitration was clause put in divorce/custody so that if work schedule changed and was assured by attorney/court that this was the case, otherwise never would have agreed, could go back and change custody back to joint physical and back to every other week for children.