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National Stepfamily Day- September 16th

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What are you planning on doing this day? Why not have a picnic? The National Stepfamily Day Foundation (www.nationalstepfamilydayfoundation.org) helps you with all the details.

However, if you live in NJ and are interested in setting one up, I am planning one. Drop me a line and we can plan it together. Let's celebrate our families; we've earned it!

She's not my mother-in-law: She's my husband's mother.

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I chose to write on what happened to my husband and I because of step-in-laws. I hope my book can help you too:

Follow one woman’s story as she journeys through a torrent of deceptions and fabrications that kept a family divided. Even so, the stronger the innuendoes, for which she was unprepared, the mightier her faith in God and the tighter her bond with her husband. Together, they weathered the in-law storms against all odds. Learn how she coped and the advice she gives. She’s not my mother-in-law; she’s my husband’s mother is a story that must be told.

Suggestions on communication with my DH -EX

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My husband and his ex have been communicating by email only for the past year or so because of lies she has told, head games, false police reports, etc. Now my husband lost 50/50 custody because his family testified against him for marrying me. They hate me and my children. Unfortunately my husband is suffering for he was the one who in reality was the primary custodian doing everything for the girls'. He moved to be closer to me and tried gaining custody of his girls'. His ex called him on the phone today and he took her call and went outside to speak w/her.

Step Dad Cop Out

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My husband is the SF to my two boys, I am the SM to his two girls. His daughters' respect and obey fine because I've been around them since 4 & 6 yrs old. My boys are 16 & 14 and they met SF around 11 & 13, they have been very disobedient and disrespectful to both of us. I want him to step up to the plate and discipline them and turn them around. He says its my job since they are my sons. This bothers me and it sort of causes me to disrespect him a little. I think its a cop out. Their father is in and out of their lives. Any suggestions?

Boss Baby

Step Dad Cop Out

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My husband is the SF to my two boys, I am the SM to his two girls. His daughters' respect and obey fine because I've been around them since 4 & 6 yrs old. My boys are 16 & 14 and they met SF around 11 & 13, they have been very disobedient and disrespectful to both of us. I want him to step up to the plate and discipline them and turn them around. He says its my job since they are my sons. This bothers me and it sort of causes me to disrespect him a little. I think its a cop out. Their father is in and out of their lives. Any suggestions?

Boss Baby