I'm new to this site and new to the stepparent thing. I'm in a relationship about a year now and I love him to pieces. He's such an amazing dad and a wonderful person. He has three kids two from his first marriage they are in their 20s. His two kids and I get along great and I love spending time with them even their mom and I have an amazing relationship. His youngest is 5yrs old and I'm having a little trouble accepting her and feeing love for her. The 4yr olds mother is a absolute horrible nasty woman.