I am a 50 YO mother of three independent, successful, compassionate and kind adult daughters, who I raised as a single mother.  I am now married to a 50 YO man whom I met in high school...he has two teenage sons (19 & 16).  Both sons have been diagnosed with ODD, IED, DMD, ADHD, and the younger one has ASD.  All disorders were diagnosed AFTER we moved in together. We have been married for almost 6 years, living together for nearly 7 years.