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Goodbye Letter to SD-personal therapy project

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Submitted by Marianne on Tue, 10/25/2022 - 10:53am

Dear SD, It appears that our bad relationship has come to an end. I realize that it has been your mission these 15 years to let me know just how much you hate me. You have done an excellent job--even put in writing for posterity. To punish your dad, he has had 15 years of mostly silent treatment. I can't recall any pleasant time we had together. Your shit face was firmly in place each and every visit to the point that others commented on it. You cruelly tortured and killed my cat when you house sat.

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Submitted by Marianne on Sun, 10/23/2022 - 3:45pm

MY Sd is 32 and I have known her since she was five. Even as a little girl, she was quiet, reserved, and never did anything to get attention. As she got older, it became more like a secretive game. Any question received the briefest and least descriptive answer. I wasn't SM until SD was 13. DH and I had holidays together when we were in a committed relationship and it suited us to keep separate homes. SD never participated that much and her BM always had out-of-town trips to relatives. BM kept SD away from her dad as much as possible. I never saw her engage with her dad or grandmother.