Hello everyone, this is my first time on, be gental please. To begin, I am the stepmother of a 3 year old. Well soon to be step mother, her father and I are engaged. All of my life Ive been what they call a "worry wart" I worry about everything, it's just kind of who I am. this trait, of course, dosnt help the stress of the situation, which I will explain to you now---no make a long story semi-short, my fiancée and I had to pick up his daughter from her grandmothers house one night because cps had been told she was intoxicated.