So...first blog, this should be interesting! Well I am a BM of two adorable little boys ages eight and two. They are my world! I also was blessed with three step children almost 9 years ago when my husband and I were married. And to go on and throw this in there my husband has had full custody of the children since 2003. So long story short I have had my highs and lows being a SM. Some days are easy and some are just plain awful, and here lately, there has been a lot more of the awful.