My husband and I divorced 3 1/2 years ago due to his aggression and abuse towards the children. The cops were called on 3 separate occasions and finally said that the next time they could hold me accountable because I was aware of what was going on. After realizing that I could not make my husband change, I had him move out. I filed for divorce and after going back and forth in court, I won sole custody of the children and my ex husband is only allowed to see the children in the presence of a responsible adult. Most of the time, the adult is his mom because that is who he lives with.