Im going to be married this march to my boyfriend who has 2 small boys.. But I feel lost. It was very quickly him and I became a couple after he left his wife, which makes me the first woman his boys have every meant. Before I moved in with him, the arrangement he had with his ex was he sees his boys twice during the week and has them sat to sun.. once I moved in with him, she didn't feel comfortable with their kids spending the night, which I understand being that I was very new in his life.