I read an article the other day that asked, "why are step-moms bitter about child support"? To which I responded, why are YOU bitter about not getting a check from someone else? Then, those that DO get a check, complain that enough time is not spent. After a man's disposable income has been pillaged, what is left to support the child when he/she is with HIM? Why is HE not given financial support by way of automatic pay deduction and the threat of jail when payments are missed?