Hi, I am 47 years old, am Irish and moved to the US two years ago to marry an American man. I brought my (then) 7 year old son with me and left my (then) 19 year old son in Ireland - he chose to stay there and go to college. I also left my beloved Mom, sisters and close friends, by beautiful home and country, a fantastic job, and my culture. This wasn't an easy decision and I deliberated for a few years before making the move.